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09

Why Health and Fitness Can Lead to Happiness

By Mark Kaplan

Happiness often seems like the elusive dream. It is the goal of so many worthwhile pursuits. We have dreams as children of being successful and then being happy.  What goes wrong so often in the process?

We confuse pursuit of worthwhile goals and achievement with behaviors that are the foundation of happiness. We are born happy and we can have happy anytime. We can have as much happiness as we can stand.  Gay Hendricks in a great book called The Big Leap says our biggest obstacle is mostly that we don’t feel we deserve it.

Well that’s a slap in the face. Can you imagine that we are our own obstacle to what we want? Things happen to us when we are young that make us feel guilty about success, feeling better than others, feeling happy while others are suffering, being all that we can be and so on.

I found my path to happiness by building it anew from my own foundation. I had been pretty good in my life about achieving, making money, buying lots of toys, but happiness seemed to be hiding behind the next thrill. When I started eating healthy, I began a road of establishing a connection with myself and nature that delivered the goods.

Finding the beauty of health and fitness in our bodies that Nature, the Universe, or God gave us makes us appreciative that we weren’t just created to live a life of separation and toil. We are at one with all that is around us and we only need appreciate that after 3. 5 billion years of life, we have arrived.  This is our day in the sun.

Be appreciative. Have gratitude that your mind, body, and spirit can achieve great self expression of what you believe, feel is important and/or want to contribute.  The discipline, openness to risk, and courage I developed along the path gave rise to a life more in flow.

Flow is the engagement in activities that are your passions and yet are still challenging. In the process, you are lost in your own world without regard for time, judgment or reward. This produces dopamine which is the brain telling you in a natural process that you are on the right track.

Don’t buy more stuff. Get in touch with your own body and make it clean and exercised.

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Life Coaching might help you get on the right track in a few sessions. I offer three sessions in an introductory program.

If you would like a group to get started on their process, consider a Speaker at your next gathering.

Be bold and express your self with a great blogging Website that you control.

Read   Fitness as a Foundation for All Activities

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